The opening stage of the negotiation covers the very first few minutes when the parties meet and greet each other and are seated in the negotiation room in preparation for the main event.

Typical behaviours at the opening stage: 'dos' and 'don'ts'

Do’s

Be punctual and well presented (welcome their arrival)

Break the ice with small talks

Start the conditioning process

Check authority

Check agenda

Consider using visual aid to set out key objectives or make key points

Don’ts

Use strong, pushy, cold or tough style at the opening

Put down marker at this stage

Criticise other organisations/TOP's previous contacts/third parties.

In this scenario, Diana has made her proposal right at the opening stage. This is an example of 'don'ts'. Good negotiators are very careful about 'red lines'. If she puts such barrier up too early, the supplier may not try to look for more creative solutions later in the negotiation.